Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Many worlds in one

I never imagined that after just a week and a half in Kenya I would have so much to write about! I'm going to have to try to narrow it down to just a paragraph or two, so here goes.
First of all, thank you thank you thank you for all your comments! It's so fun to finally get online and have so many personal messages from home! Moe, you better send me a picture of your dress immediately, I'm dying to see it! Colin - a new car?? No way! Theresa, I hope the two-piece PJs worked out, and I can't wait to hear the details. :) And I hope you're sleeping well. Kaela...feeling better I hope?

As for life in Kenya, in only a week and a half I have had so many different experiences, met so many different people and seen so many different ways of life that it is hard to sum it all up briefly. One thing I can say is that I've really been struck by the dichotomy of life here in Nairobi. One of the reasons I came to study in Kenya was that I wanted to experience a way of life different from ours in the U.S., and yet I find that many of the Kenyans around me are simultaneously trying to be more American. When my host mom gets home from work, she immediately plops down in front of the TV (yes, we have one) and starts watching foreign soap operas or melodramatic American movies, in front of which we take all our meals. The room I share with my soon-to-be 14-year-old sister is splattered with posters of Justin Timberlake, Sean Paul and Rhianna. And the weird thing is, my classmates are experiencing a similar home life with their host families as well.
There's more. Morning tea is served to us by our house girl, Joice, on an old fashioned silver platter, yet we have to lug small tubs of boiled water from the gas stove into the bathroom every time we want to bathe. On my way to school everyday, I wander down the dirt roads, passing Kenyans in fine suits and shiny dress shoes, while 7 and 8-year-old boys beg me for money, some holding a bottle of glue under their shirts and up to their noses. My host sister, Rosetta (the one I share a room with) skips any meal she can get away with because she wants to be a supermodel in the U.S. one day, and yet our modest flat is just over a mile north of the largest slum in East Africa, where approximately a million people are crammed into an area about the size of the UW campus, many starving to death. Just last night as my host mom and I ate our dinner in front of the TV - Rosetta eating nothing - we watched as the newsanchors talked of the 10 million Kenyans currently starving because of the current food crisis.

Unfortunately this isn't nearly everything I'd like to tell all of you, but I guess the rest will have to wait for another day. I have to get home by dark, when the streets are safer, so that limits our after-school activities. But to sum it up, I'm loving my experience so far, and I hope that the more experiences I have and the more I learn about these issues in class, the more I'll understand the complex, contradicting world around me.

I miss you, I love you, and I can't wait to see you all (kinda) soon. :)

7 comments:

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  2. Bridget!!!!! hi sweetie! miss you already, as usual... I am feeling much better, almost normal! I love the blog. You are such a great writer and are seeing so many interesting things, I'm jealous :) It sounds as if your host could be set right here in mn. I suppose it shows how much global influence exists. I'm sure you will be a great example an American that doesn't fulfill all the stereotypes. You will hopefully be a good influence on your host sister who seems to need some healthy guidance. I hope to keep hearing about your adventure! Love you!

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  3. Bridget!
    Wow, your journey so far sounds absolutely amazing. it is amazing the power of influence of American culture has all across the world. I would have never expected to hear some of the stories you have told in your blog.
    I am so happy to see your having an amazing experience. I have so much to tell you! Life is good (for the most part). I'll send you an e-mail soon. Keep up the blogging, I love to read it!
    Love,
    Erin

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  4. B,
    What a great job of trying to capture so many aspects of your first impressions and the complexities that you are experiencing. Thanks for sharing your remarkable opportunity to experience the "world" with all of us.

    Missing our B! Love, Mom and Dad

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  5. Bridget, How great to hear from you. I'm so glad things seem to be going well so far. I hope you took some pictures of those zebras and giraffes etc. you have been seeing. How hot is it? I've often thought it would be exciting to see some part of Africa but wondered if it would be too hot to enjoy. I'm sure you will have many unforgettable experiences while you are there. Let's hope they are all safe as well. (If you can believe it, your mom says she's less worried now than she was before you left-that's a great thing). It is so hard for us mothers not to worry. Looking forward to your next blog. Eileen (even tho it probably said this is from Mike).

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  6. JD said...
    Bridget,

    Great insight. Troubling that it is that slice of America that is so easily absorbed by folks. The deep irony of the young woman not eating to be like a US model and nearly a million people straving just a stone's throw away. Human socieities are not rationally organized.


    Your presence and life can be a helpful corrective. May your new "sister" come to want to be like you in more than just your own lovely figure.

    There is a phenomena sociologists call "adaptive preference" which describes how certain people adapt their wants and desires to what the culture presents to them. Thus such people will say that their desires are being met and seem to be "happy" when in fact they have closed themselves to desiring certain kinds of fulfilling activities simply because the culture does not present them as viable or open to them. For example a woman in rural India may not even desire to be running her own business for it is not even seen as something open to her. The best way to change such preferences is to socialize with others who have different preferences and then to be given opportunities to realize these more enriching activities with others. Your presence in the family can sow seeds for such changes in the young woman's preferences.

    Eileen and I wondered, why are the children beggars doing the stuff with glue? Is that to get your attention?

    We read in amazement and wonder of your experiences. We love and miss you.

    Mike

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  7. B,

    We miss you in Madison!

    I'll email you soon.

    CJ

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